Tuesday, June 19, 2012

My first date with "Amy"

This blog is now getting complicated, and I have decided to use pseudonyms to refer to the people that I am meeting.  The first girl that I wrote about in the last blog will be called "Amy".

Following Amy's instructions, I arrived at the agreed upon spot just after lunch. It took me a second to recognize her, since I didn't expect her to be so attractive ... what a woman! She was as tall as me, and in Spain I am considered tall (although for North America, I am just a bit taller than average) .. the had a huge beautiful smile, luscious lips, and the best of all were her eyes ... I could look at her grey eyes for hours ... I felt a very strong attraction

Amy told me a lot about her ... and I told her a lot about me ... and, I have to say, that I deeply value the conversation that we had ... it was like a therapy for me ... it was a therapy that made me keep dreaming and see things in a different light.

Even though Amy told me that she was enjoying being separated from her husband, there was still something bothering her ... she was involved in a new relationship that was impossible, she is totally in love with the guy, but he doesn't feel the same for her ...we both know that reality can be difficult..

I will definitely stay in contact with Amy, giving her moral support and whatever she needs from me ... I am not sure if I could fall in love with her, since she is unobtainable for me ... But, if one day after being friends with her I do fall in love, I would never tell her.

Amy told me that normally when she meets with men, they want to have sex with her on the first or second date... in my case, there is no doubt that she attracts me, but I refuse to be "that guy" pushing her for sex ... if it were to happen in a spontaneous way or if she asked for it, I am sure I would go for it... but for me to ask her ... never. It is not my style.

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